Getting ghosted? She found the Tea first.
There's an app called Tea where women post anonymous reviews about men they've dated. Your name, your photos, your city — visible to every woman on the platform. You can't see it. You were never supposed to. We pull everything in one sweep so you finally know what she found before she cancelled.
“Met on Hinge, seemed great at first. Turns out he's talking to multiple women at once. His name is REDACTED and he's around XX. Love bombs then disappears. Be careful...”
Two versions of your dating life exist right now.
Same you. Same city. Same apps. The only difference is whether you know what she read about you before she swiped left.
Without a scan
After your scan
One review. Then it spreads everywhere.
She hits post
Your first name, your age, your Hinge photos, and a full paragraph about what happened. Live. Visible to every woman on the platform the second she taps submit.
She hits post
Your first name, your age, your Hinge photos, and a full paragraph about what happened. Live. Visible to every woman on the platform the second she taps submit.
Hundreds of women in your city see it
Tea and Boxx push new reviews to every active user in your area. Within one hour, women scrolling the app see your name and face. Some of them are your future matches.
Hundreds of women in your city see it
Tea and Boxx push new reviews to every active user in your area. Within one hour, women scrolling the app see your name and face. Some of them are your future matches.
Screenshots hit group chats and socials
It gets screenshotted into iMessage threads, posted on Reddit, TikTok, and Facebook groups. Once it leaves the app as an image, no platform on earth can pull it back.
Screenshots hit group chats and socials
It gets screenshotted into iMessage threads, posted on Reddit, TikTok, and Facebook groups. Once it leaves the app as an image, no platform on earth can pull it back.
Removal becomes nearly impossible
Even if she deletes the original, the screenshots are already circulating. Your next match has probably already seen it. After day 7, the damage is done.
Removal becomes nearly impossible
Even if she deletes the original, the screenshots are already circulating. Your next match has probably already seen it. After day 7, the damage is done.
You are always the last person to know.
That's not an accident. These platforms were designed that way. The only question is how long you're willing to stay blind.
We search every platform where dating reviews exist.
Tea & Boxx
The apps you can't access. Women-only. Anonymous. They post your name, your photos, and a play-by-play of the date. We pull every mention tied to your identity.
Facebook & Reddit
“Are We Dating The Same Guy” groups with 50,000+ members. Subreddits like r/datingover30. Warning threads. We index everything — including posts from years ago.
TikTok Callouts
Storytime videos with your screenshot in the background. Name-and-shame compilations. “Girl, check if you matched with this guy” posts. We catch it all.
Sound familiar?
If two or more of these describe your last few months of dating, the odds a review about you exists are high.
A match went cold right after exchanging names
This is the #1 signal. She googled you, or worse — checked Tea. The vibe was fine until she knew your name.
A rough breakup in the last 18 months
The majority of reviews are posted within 6 months of a breakup. If it ended badly, assume she posted.
Dates that "went great" never texted back
She liked you in person. Then she went home, opened Tea, searched your name, and saw what someone else wrote.
Someone casually mentioned "the Tea app" to you
That wasn't small talk. Friends, coworkers, or dates don't mention Tea by accident. They're hinting at something.
Your match rate tanked and you don't know why
Women cross-reference names and photos on Tea before agreeing to a first date. If you're in there, they swipe left.
You're on 2+ dating apps in a major city
More profiles = more exposure. NYC, LA, Chicago, Miami, Austin — highest review volume. You're a sitting target.
5 minutes • Anonymous • No one gets notified
5 minutes. 7 platforms. 1 answer.
No account needed. No passwords. No one gets a notification that you looked. Here's how simple it is:
Enter your info
First name, age, city. Add a photo (optional) and our AI catches reviews that use nicknames, initials, or no name at all — just your face.
We run the sweep
Our system scans Tea, Boxx, Facebook groups, Instagram, TikTok, X and Reddit simultaneously. Name matching. Face matching. Handle matching. All at once.
Get the truth
Every mention. Every screenshot. Every comment thread. Delivered only to you. If something's there — we help you remove it at no extra cost.
What guys said after they ran the scan.
"I hadn't slept right in months after a bad split. Kept thinking she posted something. Ran the scan — nothing. Across Tea, Boxx, all the groups. Clean. I read the report twice and finally slept that night. Worth every penny just for that."
"Two Tea reviews and a Reddit thread. No idea they existed. My dating life had tanked for 6 months and now I know why. Got them removed within a week. Wish I'd done this sooner instead of losing my mind guessing."
"Came back with a possible match at 55%. They showed me exactly what lined up and what didn't. Didn't try to scare me. Just gave me the facts and let me decide. That honesty is why I'd recommend this to anyone."
Nobody finds out. Period.
The person who wrote the review will never know you looked. Our system is built so that's physically impossible — not just a policy.
Your info never leaves this page
Everything you enter is encrypted and used only to match against existing posts. We don't create accounts, send messages, or trigger notifications anywhere. Complete silence.
Zero notifications sent
No friend request. No profile view. No DM. The person who wrote about won't know you ran a scan!
End-to-End Encrypted
Your data is end-to-end encrypted. The report goes to your email only. No shared dashboards. No third-party access. We don't sell your info. Ever.
No tracking on your report
No open-tracking pixels. No analytics beacons. The report is yours and only yours. It doesn't phone home.
Questions we get asked.
Either you find out now.
Or your next date
finds out for you.
The post is already up. It's not going anywhere. The only variable is who reads it first — you, or the woman you just matched with.
No account needed • No one gets notified • Takes 5 minutes